As a new parent, one of the most challenging tasks can be deciphering what your baby needs just from their cries. It can often feel like an overwhelming guessing game. However, understanding the Dunstan Baby Language, a method developed by Priscilla Dunstan, can transform the way you respond to your baby’s cries and ultimately lead to a more peaceful and happier baby. Here’s a guide to recognizing the five universal baby cries and how to soothe them.
1. Neh: The Hunger Cry
Sound: The “Neh” cry is rhythmic and repetitive, often accompanied by sucking motions. It originates from the sucking reflex, which is triggered when the baby is hungry.
What to Do: When you hear the “Neh” cry, it’s time to feed your baby. Whether you’re breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, responding quickly to this cry ensures your baby’s hunger is satisfied.
2. Eh: The Burp Cry
Sound: The “Eh” cry is short and sharp, sounding almost like a grunt. It occurs as your baby tries to expel air trapped in their stomach.
What to Do: Help your baby burp by gently patting or rubbing their back. Burping your baby can relieve their discomfort and prevent further fussiness.
3. Owh: The Sleepy Cry
Sound: The “Owh” cry resembles the sound of a yawn. It’s a clear indicator that your baby is tired and needs rest.
What to Do: Create a calm and soothing environment for your baby to sleep. Dim the lights, reduce noise, and swaddle your baby if they find it comforting. Establishing a consistent nap routine can also be very helpful.
4. Heh: The Discomfort Cry
Sound: The “Heh” cry is often accompanied by fidgeting and squirming. It indicates that your baby is experiencing some form of discomfort.
What to Do: Check your baby’s diaper, clothing, and surroundings. Make sure they are not too hot, too cold, or in need of a diaper change. Sometimes, simply changing their position can alleviate their discomfort.
5. Eairh: The Lower Gas Cry
Sound: The “Eairh” cry is a deeper, guttural sound from the abdomen. It signals that your baby has lower abdominal gas or is experiencing bowel discomfort.
What to Do: Try gently massaging your baby’s tummy in a clockwise motion or moving their legs in a bicycling motion to help release trapped gas. Holding your baby in an upright position can also help relieve their discomfort.
The Magic of Listening
The Dunstan Baby Language method emphasizes the importance of attentive listening and responding to your baby’s specific needs. By recognizing these distinct cries, you can respond more effectively, leading to a more content and less fussy baby. This method not only fosters a stronger bond between you and your baby but also enhances your confidence as a parent.
Here is a video that will help you identify these sounds better.